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Previously #6086 added ROCm support but after numerous rebases it lost
critical changes. This PR restores the ROCm build.

There are many source file changes but most were automated using the
following:

```bash
for f in `grep -rl '#ifdef USE_CUDA'`
do
    sed -i 's@#ifdef USE_CUDA@#if defined(USE_CUDA) || defined(USE_ROCM)@g' $f
done

for f in `grep -rl '#endif  // USE_CUDA'`
do
    sed -i 's@#endif  // USE_CUDA@#endif  // USE_CUDA || USE_ROCM@g' $f
done
```

* [ci] speed up if-else, swig, and lint conda setup

* add 'source activate'

* python constraint

* start removing cuda v1

* comment out CI

* remove more references

* revert some unnecessaary changes

* revert a few more mistakes

* revert another change that ignored params

* sigh

* remove CUDATreeLearner

* fix tests, docs

* fix quoting in setup.py

* restore all CI

* Apply suggestions from code review
Co-authored-by: shiyu1994 <shiyu_k1994@qq.com>

* Apply suggestions from code review

* completely remove cuda_exp, update docs

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Co-authored-by: shiyu1994 <shiyu_k1994@qq.com>