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* Abstract away some holder functionality (resolve #585)

Custom holder types which don't have `.get()` can select the correct
function to call by specializing `holder_traits`.

* Add support for move-only holders (fix #605)

* always_construct_holder feature to support intrusively reference-counted types

* added testcase

With this there is no more need for manual user declarations like
`PYBIND11_DECLARE_HOLDER_TYPE(T, std::shared_ptr<T>)`. Existing ones
will still compile without error -- they will just be ignored silently.

Resolves #446.