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- look for windows python lib when using mingw & msys
  - if not found, then look for system python lib as before

pybind11_add_module fails because FindPythonLibsNew.cmake try to link PythonXX.lib, but the first letter "p" should be lowercase.

This variable is a CMake community standard to set the C++
standard of a build. Document it in favor of the previous variable,
which stays as a legacy flag for existing projects.

https://cmake.org/cmake/help/v3.17/variable/CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD.html

Add Python 3.8 to considered versions in CMake for additional
hints.
https://cmake.org/cmake/help/v3.2/module/FindPythonLibs.html

On some linuxes, /usr/include belongs to GCC and the standard
libraries that work with clang are in /usr/lib/clang/8.0.0 or
some variation thereof.

This results in errors such as:

```
/../lib64/gcc/x86_64-pc-linux-gnu/8.3.0/../../../../include/c++/8.3.0/bits/cxxabi_init_exception.h:38:10: fatal error: 'stddef.h' file not found

```

during extraction.

Recent versions of clang.cindex include [code][1] that converts
the internal byte strings to python str for you.

  [1]: https://github.com/llvm-mirror/clang/blob/master/bindings/python/clang/cindex.py#L72

Since the module is named FindPythonLibsNew, PythonLibsNew_FOUND should be set appropriately.

* Issue #1532: Incompatible config options, /MP vs /Gm for MSVC in DEBUG

pybind11 headers passed via the `pybind11_add_module` CMake
function can now be included as `SYSTEM` includes (`-isystem`).

This allows to set stricter (or experimental) warnings in
calling projects that might throw otherwise in headers
a user of pybind11 can not influence.

builds against a python debug library were unreliable and
could lead to symbol errors during linking.

Setting the `Py_DEBUG` define is necessary when linking
against a debug build:

https://stackoverflow.com/questions/39161202/how-to-work-around-missing-pymodule-create2-in-amd64-win-python35-d-lib

https://docs.python.org/2/c-api/intro.html#debugging-builds

https://docs.python.org/3.6/c-api/intro.html#debugging-builds

Found via `codespell`

Non-user facing. 
Found using `codespell -q 3`

[skip appveyor]

CMAKE_CXX_STANDARD is only available on CMake >= 3.1. If the flag is
set, we avoid initializing PYBIND11_CPP_STANDARD.