Windows: Fix instruction_ref iterator issues in debug builds (#2061)

src/include/migraphx/instruction_ref.hpp

 /*
  * The MIT License (MIT)
  *
- * Copyright (c) 2015-2022 Advanced Micro Devices, Inc. All rights reserved.
+ * Copyright (c) 2015-2023 Advanced Micro Devices, Inc. All rights reserved.
  *
  * Permission is hereby granted, free of charge, to any person obtaining a copy
  * of this software and associated documentation files (the "Software"), to deal
@@ -27,12 +27,42 @@
 #include <list>
 #include <functional>
 #include <migraphx/config.hpp>
+#include <migraphx/requires.hpp>
 
 namespace migraphx {
 inline namespace MIGRAPHX_INLINE_NS {
 
 struct instruction;
+#if defined(_WIN32) && !defined(NDEBUG)
+struct instruction_ref : std::list<instruction>::iterator
+{
+    using instruction_iter       = std::list<instruction>::iterator;
+    using instruction_const_iter = std::list<instruction>::const_iterator;
+
+    instruction_ref() = default;
+    instruction_ref(const instruction_iter& other) : instruction_iter(other) {}
+
+    template <class T,
+              class U,
+              MIGRAPHX_REQUIRES(std::is_same<T, instruction_ref>{} or
+                                std::is_same<U, instruction_ref>{})>
+    friend bool operator==(const T& x, const U& y)
+    {
+        return x._Unwrapped()._Ptr == y._Unwrapped()._Ptr;
+    }
+
+    template <class T,
+              class U,
+              MIGRAPHX_REQUIRES(std::is_same<T, instruction_ref>{} or
+                                std::is_same<U, instruction_ref>{})>
+    friend bool operator!=(const T& x, const U& y)
+    {
+        return !(x == y);
+    }
+};
+#else
 using instruction_ref = std::list<instruction>::iterator;
+#endif
 
 MIGRAPHX_EXPORT migraphx::instruction* as_address(const instruction_ref& ins) noexcept;