add troubleshooting docs (#12791)

.circleci/TROUBLESHOOT.md

+# Troubleshooting
+
+This is a document explaining how to deal with various issues on Circle-CI. The entries may include actually solutions or pointers to Issues that cover those.
+
+## Circle CI
+
+* pytest worker runs out of resident RAM and gets killed by `cgroups`: https://github.com/huggingface/transformers/issues/11408

.github/workflows/TROUBLESHOOT.md

+# Troubleshooting
+
+This is a document explaining how to deal with various issues on github-actions self-hosted CI. The entries may include actually solutions or pointers to Issues that cover those.
+
+## GitHub Actions (self-hosted CI)
+
+* Deepspeed
+
+  - if jit build hangs, clear out `rm -rf ~/.cache/torch_extensions/` reference: https://github.com/huggingface/transformers/pull/12723