update win cuda installer (#4498)

Co-authored-by: Jane (Yuan) Xu <31798555+janeyx99@users.noreply.github.com>

packaging/windows/internal/cuda_install.bat

@@ -128,10 +128,10 @@ goto cuda_common
 
 :cuda111
 
-if not exist "%SRC_DIR%\temp_build\cuda_11.1.0_456.43_win10.exe" (
-    curl -k -L https://ossci-windows.s3.amazonaws.com/cuda_11.1.0_456.43_win10.exe --output "%SRC_DIR%\temp_build\cuda_11.1.0_456.43_win10.exe"
+if not exist "%SRC_DIR%\temp_build\cuda_11.1.1_456.81_win10.exe" (
+    curl -k -L https://ossci-windows.s3.amazonaws.com/cuda_11.1.1_456.81_win10.exe --output "%SRC_DIR%\temp_build\cuda_11.1.1_456.81_win10.exe"
     if errorlevel 1 exit /b 1
-    set "CUDA_SETUP_FILE=%SRC_DIR%\temp_build\cuda_11.1.0_456.43_win10.exe"
+    set "CUDA_SETUP_FILE=%SRC_DIR%\temp_build\cuda_11.1.1_456.81_win10.exe"
     set "ARGS=nvcc_11.1 cuobjdump_11.1 nvprune_11.1 nvprof_11.1 cupti_11.1 cublas_11.1 cublas_dev_11.1 cudart_11.1 cufft_11.1 cufft_dev_11.1 curand_11.1 curand_dev_11.1 cusolver_11.1 cusolver_dev_11.1 cusparse_11.1 cusparse_dev_11.1 npp_11.1 npp_dev_11.1 nvjpeg_11.1 nvjpeg_dev_11.1 nvrtc_11.1 nvrtc_dev_11.1 nvml_dev_11.1"
 )