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* fix build error on ROCM

* Update CMakeLists.txt
Co-authored-by: Nikita Shulga <nikita.shulga@gmail.com>

* address comments and fix cuda detction on rocm
Co-authored-by: Nikita Shulga <nikita.shulga@gmail.com>

Needed to support CUDA builds on CPU machine

Parse `TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST` as new-CUDA-language Cmake-3.18+ style [CMAKE_CUDA_ARCHITECTURES](https://cmake.org/cmake/help/latest/prop_tgt/CUDA_ARCHITECTURES.html#prop_tgt:CUDA_ARCHITECTURES)

* Default to BUILD_SOX=1 in non-Windows systems

Since the adaptation of CMake and restricting to the static linking of libsox,
the build process has become much robust with libsox integration enabled.

This commit makes it default behavior to build libsox integration in non-Windows systems.
The build process still checks BUILD_SOX env var so, setting `BUILD_SOX=0` disables it.

* Switch to cmake for build
* Hide symbols