Use the same CUDNN version on Windows as PyTorch (#3380)

Summary:
11.7 uses 8.5.0; 11.8 uses 8.7.0; 12.1 uses 8.8.1.  Otherwise, Windows vision job (8.5.0) would overwrite the CUDNN version setup by PyTorch (8.7.0) leading to this flaky failures https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/5088860652/jobs/9146641450

```
RuntimeError: cuDNN version incompatibility: PyTorch was compiled  against (8, 7, 0) but found runtime version (8, 5, 0). PyTorch already comes bundled with cuDNN. One option to resolving this error is to ensure PyTorch can find the bundled cuDNN.
```

Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/audio/pull/3380

Reviewed By: atalman

Differential Revision: D46236286

Pulled By: huydhn

fbshipit-source-id: 9ca12d5068c3029688347d52c5c284488f33728d

packaging/windows/internal/cuda_install.bat

@@ -39,7 +39,7 @@ if not exist "%SRC_DIR%\temp_build\%CUDA_INSTALL_EXE%" (
     set "ARGS=cuda_profiler_api_11.8 thrust_11.8 nvcc_11.8 cuobjdump_11.8 nvprune_11.8 nvprof_11.8 cupti_11.8 cublas_11.8 cublas_dev_11.8 cudart_11.8 cufft_11.8 cufft_dev_11.8 curand_11.8 curand_dev_11.8 cusolver_11.8 cusolver_dev_11.8 cusparse_11.8 cusparse_dev_11.8 npp_11.8 npp_dev_11.8 nvrtc_11.8 nvrtc_dev_11.8 nvml_dev_11.8"
 )
 
-set CUDNN_FOLDER=cudnn-windows-x86_64-8.5.0.96_cuda11-archive
+set CUDNN_FOLDER=cudnn-windows-x86_64-8.7.0.84_cuda11-archive
 set CUDNN_LIB_FOLDER="lib"
 set "CUDNN_INSTALL_ZIP=%CUDNN_FOLDER%.zip"
 if not exist "%SRC_DIR%\temp_build\%CUDNN_INSTALL_ZIP%" (