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* Optimize container images for startup

This change adjusts how to handle runner payloads to support
container builds where we keep them extracted in the filesystem.
This makes it easier to optimize the cpu/cuda vs cpu/rocm images for
size, and should result in faster startup times for container images.

* Refactor payload logic and add buildx support for faster builds

* Move payloads around

* Review comments

* Converge to buildx based helper scripts

* Use docker buildx action for release

Make sure if something goes wrong spawning the process, the user gets
enough info to be able to try to self correct, or at least file a bug
with details so we can fix it.  Once the process starts, we immediately
change back to the recommended setting to prevent the blocking dialog.
This ensures if the model fails to load (OOM, unsupported model type,
etc.) the process will exit quickly and we can scan the stdout/stderr
of the subprocess for the reason to report via API.

This should resolve a number of memory leak and stability defects by allowing
us to isolate llama.cpp in a separate process and shutdown when idle, and
gracefully restart if it has problems.  This also serves as a first step to be
able to run multiple copies to support multiple models concurrently.

This refines where we extract the LLM libraries to by adding a new
OLLAMA_HOME env var, that defaults to `~/.ollama` The logic was already
idempotenent, so this should speed up startups after the first time a
new release is deployed.  It also cleans up after itself.

We now build only a single ROCm version (latest major) on both windows
and linux.  Given the large size of ROCms tensor files, we split the
dependency out.  It's bundled into the installer on windows, and a
separate download on windows.  The linux install script is now smart and
detects the presence of AMD GPUs and looks to see if rocm v6 is already
present, and if not, then downloads our dependency tar file.

For Linux discovery, we now use sysfs and check each GPU against what
ROCm supports so we can degrade to CPU gracefully instead of having
llama.cpp+rocm assert/crash on us.  For Windows, we now use go's windows
dynamic library loading logic to access the amdhip64.dll APIs to query
the GPU information.

This also refines the build process for the ext_server build.

This switches darwin to dynamic loading, and refactors the code now that no
static linking of the library is used on any platform