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This should resolve a number of memory leak and stability defects by allowing
us to isolate llama.cpp in a separate process and shutdown when idle, and
gracefully restart if it has problems.  This also serves as a first step to be
able to run multiple copies to support multiple models concurrently.

If we're doing generate, test windows cuda and rocm as well

This refines where we extract the LLM libraries to by adding a new
OLLAMA_HOME env var, that defaults to `~/.ollama` The logic was already
idempotenent, so this should speed up startups after the first time a
new release is deployed.  It also cleans up after itself.

We now build only a single ROCm version (latest major) on both windows
and linux.  Given the large size of ROCms tensor files, we split the
dependency out.  It's bundled into the installer on windows, and a
separate download on windows.  The linux install script is now smart and
detects the presence of AMD GPUs and looks to see if rocm v6 is already
present, and if not, then downloads our dependency tar file.

For Linux discovery, we now use sysfs and check each GPU against what
ROCm supports so we can degrade to CPU gracefully instead of having
llama.cpp+rocm assert/crash on us.  For Windows, we now use go's windows
dynamic library loading logic to access the amdhip64.dll APIs to query
the GPU information.

The runners are x86 so we can only run binaries that match.

This also refines the build process for the ext_server build.