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* select layers based on estimated model memory usage

* always account for scratch vram

* dont load +1 layers

* better estmation for graph alloc

* Update gpu/gpu_darwin.go
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* Update llm/llm.go
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* Update llm/llm.go

* add overhead for cuda memory

* Update llm/llm.go
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* fix build error on linux

* address comments

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