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Also merged in some changed from apex

The LICENSE file says everything is 3-clause BSD, which is what we want,
but at some point the Apache license was added to the top of some files
and that proliferated. This commit removes the Apache license from any
files that we own the copyright to.

Also updates the copyright year and removes the unnessary coding=utf-8
line.

Remove deprecated destination argument to state_dict functions and make all arguments keyword to avoid warnings.