added return_grad for all types of rnnt loss (#29)

* added return_grad for all types of rnnt loss

* lifted T >= S for regular case

* black reformat

* black -l80 reformat

* fixed s_range adjustment rule
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canceled #19978
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bandit-sast

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code_quality

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secret_detection

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semgrep-sast

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test