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* Fix gradient accumulation

- Add ``is_scaled_loss`` flag to support both scaled / unscaled loss
- Add a method `scale_grad_by_num_grads_to_accum`to handle gradient accumulation using unscaled loss more explicitly
- Fix ``test_grad_accum`` and``test_set_num_gradients_to_accumulate``
- Add tests for gradient

Co-authored-by: Min Xu <min.xu.public@gmail.com>

- cover them in terms of code path only
- numerically, AdaScale is different on SDP/FSDP than DDP, mainly
  due to partial view of the gradients.
- this doesn't mean it is definitely not useful but it is yet to
  be validated.
- not going to spend too much time until we have a real use case.

* adding an assert + corresponding unit test
* updated changelog
* adjusting the adascale tests

* [test]: test adascale with oss

* minor fix

* add a small comment

* refactor: moved find_tensor_by_shape

* refactor: move test golden data into its own module

* refactor: simplied the train function

* refactor: added comments as suggested

* adding the pytest timeout plugin to properly root out hanging tests
* removing redundant code, slightly more reasonable timeout, works on single cuda
* finding the root bug for some of the cpu hangs, rpc init
* propagating all the rpc init test changes to the pipe and model parallel tests

* better ddp adascale tests

* make sure the single node test use the same test cases and expected gains

* added unit test that covers smoothing factor

- tested by re-introducing the bug and see the test fail as expected.

* added AdaScale to README

* [adascale] added gradient accumulation

- added gradient accumulation
- tested with cifar full trainings with different value of accumulation
and verified the full accuracy is obtained
- also removed the patch optimize flag until we need it

* [adascale] adding pytest

- added basic and ddp tests and grad_accum
- closes #195

* added changelog

* added ddp grad_accum test

* moved ddp and non-ddp tests into separate files

* added checkpoint test

* more doc

* addressed Mike's comments