[lazy] fix compatibility problem on torch 1.13 (#3911)

colossalai/lazy/lazy_init.py

@@ -37,7 +37,7 @@ _EARLY_MATERIALIZED_OPS = ['__getitem__', 'split']
 # If your intent is to change the metadata of a Tensor (such as sizes / strides / storage / storage_offset)
 # without autograd tracking the change, remove the .data / .detach() call and wrap the change in a `with torch.no_grad():` block.
 # These ops cannot be unwrapped using .data
-_CHANGE_META_OPS = ['_cudnn_rnn_flatten_weight', 'requires_grad_', '__get__', '__set__']
+_CHANGE_META_OPS = ['_cudnn_rnn_flatten_weight', 'requires_grad_', '__get__', '__set__', 'numel', 'size', 'dim']
 
 _LEGACY_TENSOR_CONSTRUCTOR = {
     'FloatTensor': torch.float,