Merge branch 'update_rocshmem' into 'main'

fix rocshmem compile err and update rocshmem_dir.

See merge request dcutoolkit/deeplearing/DeepEP!4

build.sh

@@ -55,8 +55,8 @@ build_rocshmem()
 }
 
 if [ "$USE_ROCSHMEM" == "ON" ]; then
-    if [ ! -d "rocshmem_dir" ]; then
-        mkdir -p rocshmem_dir
+    if [ ! -d "third-party/rocshmem_dir" ]; then
+        mkdir -p third-party/rocshmem_dir
     fi
     build_rocshmem
     SHMEM_INSTALL_PREFIX=$(pwd)/rocshmem_dir

rocshmem @ 56da1232

-Subproject commit 8e95de40f7209db648c84aa47bbfdea7a4727386
+Subproject commit 56da12324dbc61989ead10f3063c6f6fdbfacaae