lighter 'make test' (#6512)

CONTRIBUTING.md

@@ -149,6 +149,14 @@ Follow these steps to start contributing:
    $ make test
    ```
 
+   Note, that this command uses `-n auto` pytest flag, therefore, it will start as many parallel `pytest` processes as the number of your computer's CPU-cores, and if you have lots of those and a few GPUs and not a great amount of RAM, it's likely to overload your computer. Therefore, to run the test suite, you may want to consider using this command instead:
+
+   ```bash
+   $ python -m pytest -n 3 --dist=loadfile -s -v ./tests/
+   ```
+
+   Adjust the value of `-n` to fit the load your hardware can support.
+
    `transformers` relies on `black` and `isort` to format its source code
    consistently. After you make changes, format them with: