win: exit instead of abort (#13138)

Calling abort on windows triggers the C++ runtime to attempt a debugger
attach, which causes the crashed runners to hang instead of exit, leading
to a timeout instead of a fast failure during discovery.

llama/patches/0036-win-exit-instead-of-abort.patch

+From 0000000000000000000000000000000000000000 Mon Sep 17 00:00:00 2001
+From: Daniel Hiltgen <daniel@ollama.com>
+Date: Tue, 18 Nov 2025 09:58:23 -0800
+Subject: [PATCH] win: exit instead of abort
+
+---
+ ggml/src/ggml.c | 7 ++++++-
+ 1 file changed, 6 insertions(+), 1 deletion(-)
+
+diff --git a/ggml/src/ggml.c b/ggml/src/ggml.c
+index 9be35c1be..923c33d05 100644
+--- a/ggml/src/ggml.c
++++ b/ggml/src/ggml.c
+@@ -229,8 +229,13 @@ void ggml_abort(const char * file, int line, const char * fmt, ...) {
+         fprintf(stderr, "%s\n", message);
+         ggml_print_backtrace();
+     }
+-
++#if defined(_WIN32)
++    fflush(stderr);
++    fflush(stdout);
++    exit(1);
++#else
+     abort();
++#endif
+ }
+ 
+ // ggml_print_backtrace is registered with std::set_terminate by ggml.cpp

ml/backend/ggml/ggml/src/ggml.c

@@ -229,8 +229,13 @@ void ggml_abort(const char * file, int line, const char * fmt, ...) {
         fprintf(stderr, "%s\n", message);
         ggml_print_backtrace();
     }
-
+#if defined(_WIN32)
+    fflush(stderr);
+    fflush(stdout);
+    exit(1);
+#else
     abort();
+#endif
 }
 
 // ggml_print_backtrace is registered with std::set_terminate by ggml.cpp