Hipify various dependencies to enable AMD Face Enhancer

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebookresearch/d2go/pull/675

This diff extends several targets to be hip compatible and fixes a few silly hipification issues with those targets.

After these changes, all dependencies needed for the face enhancer can compile with AMD.

A few silly issues that I had to hack around, maybe we could improve hipification to avoid similar issues in the future:
* Some of the dependencies used sources in `src/cuda/**.cu`. Hipification tried to rename "cuda" to "hip" and broke the paths. I'm not sure where that rename happens so I just changed the directory from "cuda" to "gpu" to avoid the issue.
* One header import called `THCAtomics.cuh` was incorrectly being renamed to `THHAtomics.cuh`, which doesnt exist. Fortunately an equivalent import that doesnt have name issues was available.

We also might want to consider graduating the cpp_library_hip bazel helper out of fbgemm since it seems pretty generally useful.

For some of the targets, we needed to build a python cpp extension, which as far as I can tell we didnt have good hipification for yet. I added a new buck rule very similar to our standard cpp_library_hip rule that creates an extension instead. It's a little copy-pasted so if there are cleaner ways to work around this requirement let me know.

Reviewed By: houseroad

Differential Revision: D61080247

fbshipit-source-id: dc6f101eb3eadfd43ef5610c651b1639e4c78ae6

projects_oss/detr/detr/src/cuda/ms_deform_attn_cuda.cu → projects_oss/detr/detr/src/gpu/ms_deform_attn_cuda.cu

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@
 */
 
 #include <vector>
-#include "cuda/ms_deform_im2col_cuda.cuh"
+#include "ms_deform_im2col_cuda.cuh"
 
 #include <ATen/ATen.h>
 #include <ATen/cuda/CUDAContext.h>

projects_oss/detr/detr/src/cuda/ms_deform_im2col_cuda.cuh → projects_oss/detr/detr/src/gpu/ms_deform_im2col_cuda.cuh

@@ -15,8 +15,7 @@
 
 #include <ATen/ATen.h>
 #include <ATen/cuda/CUDAContext.h>
-
-#include <THC/THCAtomics.cuh>
+#include <ATen/cuda/Atomic.cuh>
 
 #define CUDA_KERNEL_LOOP(i, n)                          \
   for (int i = blockIdx.x * blockDim.x + threadIdx.x;   \

projects_oss/detr/detr/src/ms_deform_attn.h

@@ -13,7 +13,7 @@
 #include "cpu/ms_deform_attn_cpu.h"
 
 #ifdef WITH_CUDA
-#include "cuda/ms_deform_attn_cuda.h"
+#include "gpu/ms_deform_attn_cuda.h"
 #endif
 
 
@@ -59,4 +59,3 @@ ms_deform_attn_backward(
     }
     AT_ERROR("Not implemented on the CPU");
 }
-